|—||Things I wish I could tell you (via soulsscrawl)|
I’m over it,
I promise I’m over it.
But it still hurts sometimes.
|—||Laura Elizabeth Ross (via unabashinglyme)|
I’m so sorry you have had your heart hurt like this, the problem with falling in love with someone is that it involves risk, the risk of getting hurt. We cannot manufacture our feelings, when we love someone, we love them, we cannot explain why, it can’t be seen, touched or understood, therefore, when a person finishes a relationship or takes it for granted, it is so easy to blame ourselves. What did I do wrong, what is so wrong with me? There is nothing wrong with you, you are not worthless or useless, to another person you will be their world, the love of their life, but to this girl you weren’t. She may have tried to love you but it just didn’t happen. Please remember love is very complicated and I don’t know anyone that has worked out how to explain it. Unfortunately, when people try to make something work but deep down they know its not going to, anger takes over and then they don’t treat you properly or with respect. Instead of being honest with herself, she may have tried for too long and blamed these negative feelings and thoughts upon you. Please do not give up hope, there is someone out there for you. You need to grieve this relationship as this is a natural process, and then when you are ready, gently become open to accepting another person into your life. The most important thing in any relationship is to NEVER change to impress or please the other person as this leads to confusion, stay true to you then your partner will respect you. I wish you well, warm wishes Sam xx