"I was honored to have been backstage with the boss lady last night while she hosted the Oscars. I captured this right before she took the stage for the first time, taking one last look at her notes before an unforgettable performance!" Aaron Pinkston on Instagram
Can’t get enought of these two!
You must learn her.
You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to.
You must love her because many have tried and failed. And she wants to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.
And, this is how you keep her.
|—||Junot Diaz, This is How you Lose Her (via beccers)|
Can u believe there are plants that are illegal
Can you believe there is love that is illegal
You have ideas planted in your head, thoughts you never had before, that tell you how you have to act, how you have to dress and who you have to be. I have been trying to push back, to be authentic, to follow my heart, but it can be hard.
But I have a few suggestions to keeping your love alive.
1- Don’t fall asleep angry. But if you do, wake up in the middle of the night and hold her as close as you can.
2- Laugh during sex, especially if you bump heads. If you aren’t laughing, you’re with the wrong person.
3- If you don’t feel comfortable dancing naked with your partner and showing them your four chins when you laugh, you’re doing it wrong.
4- Romance isn’t for everyone, but a post-it note in their lunchbox telling them they’re the best will never go amiss.
5- Don’t cling to them at parties. Dance with friends and spend time with acquaintances, but wink at each other across the room.
6- Keep everything 50/50, or you will fall out of balance.
7- Stop comparing your relationship to others- you are you, don’t try to be someone else.
8- Be kind. Give them space when they need it, but be their home when they come back.
9- Be proud to love them.
10- Support them through whatever they do in life, even if it’s a stupid decision. People need to make their own mistakes, but be there if it falls apart, and never say ‘I told you so’.
And most of all, love with your whole heart, or don’t love at all.
|—||FRS. (via thedapper-dyke)|
dO YOU EVER JUST WANNA SHAKE SOMEONE AND SAY THIS???
One of the rare upsides to being sad a lot of the time is that when you’re happy, you honestly know you’re happy. It’s like this incredible euphoria and it’s such a nice feeling. Today is one of those days, and it’s lovely!